I’ve been having a hard time with this solo-self-isolation. All members of my family are thousands of miles away, experiencing their own lockdowns. Music, books, cleaning, and cooking are losing their charms after the 2 weeks I’ve been doing this! And I fear there will be weeks more.
As a person with disabilities that make life unpredictable at the best of times, getting sicker and sicker has already meant losing my social life, long before this coronavirus even hit.
People do not call you if you’ve cancelled at the last minute, or don’t even have the words to articulate what you’re feeling after a while. Causation is tiring to constantly explain or reason out, when you have fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, active arthritis, and bell’s palsy. As such, navigating this time with the few good friends I have is crucial.
Trying to figure out the every “why” of my body’s reaction had me going to doctors for years with questions to which they did not have answers. Things have changed a great deal in ideas about fibromyalgia and ME or chronic fatigue syndrome since I was first diagnosed in 1998.
But the symptoms have not. In fact, they’ve gotten much worse. And sadly, I suspect as a woman of colour, I have probably not gotten the help I might have. I know very clearly that privilege and hierarchy play a huge role in accessing adequate healthcare. The best health care I ever recieved was when I was a law student, and the words engendered respect in doctors! However, that feels like another lifetime ago.
Being in this situation has meant that all systems are go! Both the physical activity of carrying on solo life and disinfection under self-isolation, and the emotional stress can be a trigger to increased pain, fatigue and brain fog.
The protocols of this COVID 19 time are alienating and isolating. Staying strong means breathing, eating twice a day whether one’s hungry or not, going out on the balcony for air a few times a day, and walks, weather permitting. Staying hydrated. Getting vitamins. And listeneing to some other beautiful soloists!
Staying strong means listening to some beautiful jazz in an impromptu concert by piano maestro Chucho Valdes!
Staying strong means listening to the wondrous voice of the great Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan.
Staying strong means listening to the intricate and soothing ragas of Indian classical music and Pandit Bhimsen Joshi.
Staying strong means listening to the beautiful cello solos of the imimitable and compassionate Yo Yo Ma!
Staying strong means listening to the latest piece from Chilean Popular artist, Ana Tijoux
Staying strong means listening to the wonderful contemporary Cuban-Mexican singer-songwriter, Leiden!
Staying strong means clanging pots and pans with my neighbours to honour our health care workers, and all those working and risking their health and lives— so people like me, and the elderly, who are most vulnerable — can stay home.
Staying strong means signing petitions against homelessness, hunger, lack of basic human rights, and drinking water on First Nations lands, not only in the time of the Corona virus, but for all time.
Staying strong means demanding those who rule us are accountable in making domestic policy that is fair, equitable and just for the most vulnerable in our society!
Staying strong means supporting alternatives to our current way of cruelty, I mean, life, under profit and the cash nexus.
I wish all of you a safe and well time during these uncertain and dystopian days. May you be surrounded by the love you need!